1. WHAT IS TANTRA?

I’ll give you one of the most simplistic definitions I have seen. Tantra is the concept that everything is connected, expanding and interwoven. It is the metaphor of the universe being in each of us and in turn, each of us being the smallest particle. Everything is everything, The way to realize this, for each of us, is to embrace practices that offer new experiences, expansive growing, and an invitation to experience the Divine. Whether it is through yoga, meditation, relationships of all kinds, consciousness, and perfection in sports or business, spiritual pursuits and especially sex. We are reminded of the unity and divine presence when we do these things with spirit and excellence.

The word Tantra is Sanskrit, the sacred language of Hinduism. It derives from the root word tan, which translates as “to extend, expand, spread, continue, spin out, weave, to put forth, show, or manifest”. Like the universe we inhabit, Tantra is continually expanding, spreading and manifesting itself like a “cosmic weave”, made up of different energies. We are part of this weave, as are our forefathers and foremothers, all life, and every type of energy and matter. This includes thoughts, actions, and all physical matter.

So for my interpretation.  Tantra is a pathway to enlightment, like Budhism.  In its truest form, it is a way of life.  Living and capturing the moment in everyday life in a way that creates power, majic and divinity.  From a sexual standpoint, what tantra means to me is an energetic connection between the earth, one another and reaching the divine through the movement of this energy.

2. DO YOU TEACH TANTRA?

It is difficult to teach tantra in a one hour massage session, but I will share a few tidbits I feel are important for understanding what the experience is all about.  However, for subsequent visits, or for the longer appointments, I will teach you more about tantra and how to become a better lover to your partner if you are interested. My TANTRA-SSAGE is about a tantric, holistic and spiritual (non-therapeutic) massage for you to experience!

3. WHAT DO I NEED TO DO TO MAKE AN APPOINTMENT?

First, I appreciate you reading my website in its entirety. This will help you know more about what I provide.  You might want to Google the word tantra, or tantra massage. This will help you understand more about Tantra. Once you have decided you want to see me, I prefer you make an appointment via email. This way I have my calendar right in front of me and it is easier to schedule. Please tell me about yourself so I will feel more comfortable in inviting you to my studio. I will require a first name, phone number and how you heard about me. References are appreciated but not required. For discretionary reasons, I rarely will call you back unless I need to cancel due to an emergency. If you have made an appointment several days in advance, I will ask that you touch base with me the day before. You will be asked to reconfirm at least 2-hours before your scheduled visit. Directions to the studio, or hotel when I’m traveling, will only be given once you have reconfirmed. I understand in the world in which we live in, things happen. Please give me as much notice as possible should you have the need to cancel. It is difficult for me to reschedule another appointment at the last minute, therefore your cancellation is lost income for me.

4. WHAT SHOULD I EXPECT?

I have found the clients who are the most satisfied really had no expectations. They hope to receive and experience something new, yet sensual; while surrendering to pleasure and letting go. Everyone will react differently to my touch, yet have their own desire of the outcome. It is prudent for me to say the more often you visit me, the more we will learn and share together. Please let me know what you hope to achieve for your first encounter. I realize for many of you, especially when I travel, or you travel to me, may only see me just one time. Therefore, please let me know your expectations so I know how to gear this very sensual and sacred, full body TANTRA-SSAGE. As we feel more comfortable with one another and get to know each other better, I will be able to teach more about sacred tantra. 

5. SHOULD I SHOWER BEFORE I COME?

Since this is a very intimate session, I prefer that you be squeaky clean. I also appreciate fresh breath, especially if you are a smoker.

6. DO YOU USE SCENTED OILS?

Yes I do. It’s part of the experience and helps open the body and prepare you for full body relaxation. It is rare that anyone has an allergic reaction to the oils I use. You will want to shower once the session is over so you are confident of having no residual scents on your body. If allergies are a concern, please let me know and I will not use the essential oils.

7. IS IT OKAY TO TOUCH YOU DURING THE SESSION?

Nothing about what I offer is scripted. Everything I do is based on intuition, learned reaction, and experience, yet very much individualized. Generally though, for the first visit, I want you to focus on receiving pleasure. Men are ingrained at an early age to provide for women. So this can be difficult for some men. Focus on being touched in a way you may not be use to. You may want to re-read the bullets at the beginning of my website. I want to give you unconditional love and the experience to be more about YOU. If you start touching me, it interferes with the entire experience and throws me out of groove, focus and balance. I am then not able to give you this special experience you deserve. Perhaps you will want to come back for a future session so I can teach you how to give your partner a sacred massage.

8. DO YOU SAVE MY PERSONAL INFORMATION?

I do not store your information and will not contact you again unsolicited. Your contact number is just in case I need to get in touch with you once our appointment has been reconfirmed.

9. WHEN I TRAVEL?

I use upscale accommodations, or serviced apartments when I travel so I can create a nice and relaxing atmosphere that you come to expect from a high quality service. I have always been a low volume lady! Meaning, I prefer to only see 1-2 clients maximum per day. Therefore, this makes my rates a bit higher than others. I will not give you my exact location until the appointment has been reconfirmed. Once you are in the hotel/apt I will give you the room number.