Frequently Asked Questions

 

 

1. What is Tantra?

I’ll give you one of the most simplistic definition I have seen. 

Tantra is the concept that everything is connected, expanding and interwoven. It is the metaphor of the universe being in each of us and, in turn, each of us being in the smallest particle. Everything is Everything. The way to realize this, for each of us, is to embrace practices that offer new experiences, expansive growing and an invitation to experience the Divine. Whether that is through yoga, meditation, relationships of all kinds, consciousness, and perfection in sports or business, spiritual pursuits and especially sex, we are reminded of the unity and divine presence when we do these things with spirit and excellence.

The word Tantra is Sanskrit, the sacred language of Hinduism. It derives from the root word tan, which translates as “to extend, expand, spread, continue, spin out, weave; to put forth, show, or manifest.” Like the universe we inhabit, Tantra is continually expanding, spreading, and manifesting itself like a “cosmic weave,” made up of different energies. We are part of this weave, as are our forefathers and foremothers, all life, and every type of energy and matter. This includes thoughts, actions, and all physical matter.

2. What do I need to do to make an appointment?

 

First I appreciate you reading my site completely and some of the links I have provided.  This will help you understand more about Tantra.  Once you have decided you want to see me, please contact me via email and let me know how you heard about me and more about yourself.  I generally need a minimum of 30-days notice to travel to you since I am coming from another country.

3. What should I expect?

I have found the clients who are most satisfied really had no expectations.  They hoped to learn and receive something new, yet erotic and sensual.  Everyone will react differently to my touch, to my lessons, yet have their own desire of the outcome.  It is prudent to say the more often you visit me, the more we will learn and share together. Please share with me what you hope to achieve for our first time together.

4.  Should I shower before I come?

 

Since this is a very intimate session, I prefer that you be squeaky clean.  I touch your entire body!

 

5. Do you use scented oils?

 

Yes I do.  It is part of the experience and helps to open the body and prepare you to relax.  It is rare that anyone has an allergic reaction to the oils I use. You are welcome to take a shower once the session is over so you are confident of having no residual scents on your body or clothing.

 

6. Do you automatically massage the prostate?

 

As part of tantra, I will massage the external portion of the prostate.  This will give you a warm fuzzy feeling and some different sensations from what you may be use to experiencing.   I only go internally if you are mentally and physically prepared.  It may not happen during your first visit if you are not ready for this.  It can be a very pleasurable for many men, but others it is a big turn off.  Please communicate with me your desires for this form of tantra.